The Church’s Misunderstanding of Female Sexuality

Have you ever heard the phrase "men give love to get sex and women give sex to get love"?  This phrase is the pinnacle of an ill-informed mindset that has become pervasive in the church. Apparently women don't like sex all that much, and simply give in to fulfill their emotional needs. And apparently, men... Continue Reading →


What exactly IS compatibility and why is it important?

I am a firm believer that romantic compatibility is important. My experiences of failure and success in relationships has been so closely tied to compatibility that I've had a first-hand look at the stark difference it makes. Many people undervalue this topic and say that compatibility is not needed. I strongly disagree, but I would... Continue Reading →

Living in Anxiety

Stress is a natural part of life. It's a natural reaction and it even helps motivate us. However, when you have an anxiety disorder, stress turns into overwhelming, debilitating, irrational fear. As someone with Generalized Anxiety Disorder, I’ve realized how anxiety has the potential to invade every area of my life. And I’m continually trying... Continue Reading →

Honesty from a College Grad

You never know exactly what to expect when you’re about to graduate from college. You may be incredibly excited, or too scared to even think about it. You may or may not have a job lined up, a place to live, or the romantic relationship that you might desire. Regardless of whether or not you... Continue Reading →

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